I never understood why people make marriage sound like a mammoth curse when they refer to it. After all it is just a phase of life from when you share most of you with some one else.
Now that it has been a year that i have been married, i get the gist of it- Marriage takes the I out of your life completely. Being a Man , one gets accustomed to living in a particular way and that has to change once married - which i guess is the most tramautic experience for a man who has lived life on his terms( or thinks he has ) so far with little or no consideration for people around him.
Feminists tend to call him a chauvanist - Women in general know this shade pretty well in their men - some let it slide , some take it to task and some tame it down.
What a woman does to her man is what he allows her to do with him and their life. But Man as the more egoistic being, does not accept the fact and tries to blame the woman for what he has become from what he was. He fails to see the situations where his inputs and views would have made a difference and would have set his life on a path starkly different. And fails to accept the fact that it is his indecisiveness that led him this chaotic route.
Men are indifferent to most of the things happening around them . This is a common trait found in men of all ages and generations.The indifference sometimes affects their decisions about important things in life and those decisions taken or rather arrived at bring about the chaos and unhappiness associated with it.
Now that it has been a year that i have been married, i get the gist of it- Marriage takes the I out of your life completely. Being a Man , one gets accustomed to living in a particular way and that has to change once married - which i guess is the most tramautic experience for a man who has lived life on his terms( or thinks he has ) so far with little or no consideration for people around him.
Feminists tend to call him a chauvanist - Women in general know this shade pretty well in their men - some let it slide , some take it to task and some tame it down.
What a woman does to her man is what he allows her to do with him and their life. But Man as the more egoistic being, does not accept the fact and tries to blame the woman for what he has become from what he was. He fails to see the situations where his inputs and views would have made a difference and would have set his life on a path starkly different. And fails to accept the fact that it is his indecisiveness that led him this chaotic route.
Men are indifferent to most of the things happening around them . This is a common trait found in men of all ages and generations.The indifference sometimes affects their decisions about important things in life and those decisions taken or rather arrived at bring about the chaos and unhappiness associated with it.
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