You know some one or you think you know some one closely, hold them dear and cannot stand to think that there are certain facets you never knew. What would you do?
Would you condemn them to a fate of delusion and despair for the only reason that YOU never understood the reason behind YOU not getting to know what lies beneath?
Would you never forgive them for a mistake/blunder they were responsible for, for the simple reasoning they had about it, given the circumstances and his/her capability to guage and react to the circumstances?
Would you hold a grudge against them for that single act of what you think of as wrong doing, refusing to see it from his/her point of view and judge them based on that act rather than how that person made you feel ?
Or Would you side with him/her and let them know that you disapprove the act but nonetheless support him/her because he/she acted the way he/she did ,because of their perception at that point.
Would you be ever able to explain the fine nuances of the essence of your relationship , how varied and changed it might have ,over the time?
Simply put would you be able to let them know that you love them for what they are and where they come from?
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